Artis Malaysia Berhijrah.. Alhamdullilah..

Alhamdullilah.. hari nie hari ke-8 kita menjalani ibadah puasa.. sedar tak sedar dah seminggu kita dibulan Ramadhan.. cepatkan masa belalu..

Hari nie beli lauk kat kedai.. malas nak masak =D.. biasa lah aii.. kalau tak masak, banyak masa terluang kan.. sepatutnya aii boleh kemas bilik.. tapi apa yg aii buat?? aii pi surf internet & dengar ceramah Ustaz Azhar.. jadik, bilik tak berkemas tapi Alhamdullilah dapat jugak pengetahuan sedikit..

Sambil2 dengar ceramah.. nampak pulak gambau Ning Baizura bertudung.. terkojut gue.. wahhh dah makin ramai artis Malaysia berhijrah.. Alhamdullilah.. Alhamdullilah.. sesungguhnya kita tidak mengetahui bila hidayah dari Allah akan datang..

Antara artis2 yg berhijrah.. 

 nampak makin manis dan bersihkan wajah dorang.. so sweet.. love it.. semoga penghijrahan mereka 

berkekalan hendaknya.. InsyaAllah.. Aminn..

Ning Baizura..  not sure if she's wearing the hijab on her own or just for a movie.. nampak catatan tentang gambar bertudung Ning - "Gambar Ning Baizura pakai tudung untuk telefilem Haji Bakhil yang akan ditayangkan tak lama lagi. Telefilem ini merupakan arahan Ahmad Tarmimi Siregar akan turut dibintangi Arash Mohamed. Diterbitkan oleh syarikat produksi milik pengarah Erma Fatima, telefilem itu bakal ditayangkan pada Hari Raya Aidiladha tahun ni." Tapi harap penampilan Ning nie berterusan..

 Abby Fana.. DJ radio dah berhijrah selepas kembali dari umrah pada akhir tahun lepas.. 1st time kemunculan dia bertudung di Selamat Pagi Malaysia mengejutkan ramai orang.. me sempat tengok you.. rasa sebak je tiba2.. and she looked so sweet with the tudung..

 Farah Asyikin.. I followed her in FB.. and pertama kali dia muncul with the Hijab.. I congratulate her.. baca cerita kenapa dia bertudung.. rasa terharu sangat..  this  pic, Farah & her sis.. yg baru jugak bertudung..

Siti Fazurina.. mengambil keputusan untuk bertudung ini datang ikhlas dari hatinya, bukannya dipaksa oleh mana-mana pihak -  “Saya tiada apa-apa alasan kenapa perlu ambil keputusan untuk bertudung tetapi ia datang dari hati saya sendiri selepas menyambut hari lahir yang ke-30,”  Alhamdullilah..

Natasha Hudson yg memakai tudung di sekitar bulan April 2012.. Tahniah.. memetik kata2 dari Natasha.. "Memang ramai kawan-kawan yang tidak sangka dengan perubahan saya ini. Begitu juga dengan keluarga. Namun, mereka semua gembira untuk saya dan memberikan sokongan. Carleed juga gembira dengan imej baru ini. Saya akan teruskan karier lakonan dan nyanyian seperti biasa kerana saya tidak menganggap pemakaian hijab sebagai satu masalah besar. Kalau Yuna boleh melakukannya, saya juga boleh. Saya percaya perjalanan hidup kita ditentukan oleh Allah. Buat masa ini saya gembira dengan perubahan ini dan mendoakan ia berkekalan."

Irma yg mengejutkan ramai pihak bila dia memutuskan untuk berhijab last year.. dia merasai nikmat selepas bertudung.. good for you Irma.. =D

 Dan Sham Kamikazi sekarang penceramah bebas.. Alhamdullilah..

Update 02.08.2012 - Soo surprise to see this pic.. Sharifah Sofea.. sapa yang tak kenal dia nie..  berlakon dalam Sepana Jaya kan.. yg paling berkesan.. drama Nur Kasih.. Best!!!,, harap2 berkekalan lah dia bertudung.. Ameen..

Update 04.08.2012 from Berita harian.. semalam Sharifah Sofea dan hari ini Sharifah Aleya.. sememangnya Ramadhan kali ini mmg membawa kerbekatan.. dan semoga kita semua akan di rahmati Allah hendaknya.. Ameen..

Sharifah Aleya Syed Zainal Rashid Al-Yahya.. bertudung sejak Ramadhan pertama mengharapkan penampilan beliau akan berkekalan.. InsyaAllah..Ameen..

update 06.08.2012 - cuba teka siapa si cantik & comel ini.. jangan terperanjat yer.. si cantik jelita nie, tak lain & tak bukan...  Shiela Amzahhh.. yerrr.. anak ND Lala tuh.. cantik kannnnn.. makin ayu gitu.. nie dari facebook Shiela sendiri dengan tajuk "the new me..".. haaa gitu alkisahnya Jah.. Alhamdullilah.. not so sure bila dia start bertudung.. tapi this is not the 1st pic yg menampilkan Shiela berhijab.. teruja aii tau, ramai artis berhijrah.. =D..

Update 09.08.2012.. saw Nurul Syuhadah Nurul Ain di program MHI hari ini.. dengan penampilan beliau bertudung.. Alhamdullilah.. and before she did bertudung.. nie sewaktu beliau ditugaskan membuat liputan di Palestin..

 .. dan ini sewaktu beliau di Jom heboh 2011..

Update 14.08.2012.. guess what??!!.. well kalau ada update, maknanya bertambah lagi le artis bertudung kan.. Alhamdullilah.. siapa kali nie... cuba teka?? nak kata basi, baru semalam cerita nie keluar.. ermmm.. artis ini ada lah drum sket.. tangg.. tummm.. tangggg..

artis itu adalahhhhhh............ Ayu Raudah.. yep.. yep.. yg bertudung dalam banyak drama tuh.. yang paling femes, drama Nur Kasih la kan.. dia lawa kalau bertudung.. & nampak a bit older than her age kalau tak bertudung.. mungkin rambut tak digayakan dengan betul agaknya.. tapi seems dia dah bertudung tu.. tak payah susah2 nak gayakan rambut lagi.. bertudung lagi afdal.. Alhamdullilah syukur.. semoga berkekalan lah penampilan nie yer Ayu.. =D (verangan dia vaca aii nyer nukilan nih khikhikhi..)

Update 29.12.2012

Adik Elfira Loy bertudung.. Alhamdullilah..

Penampilan pelakon muda Ezlisa Loy yang cantik mengenakan hijab sewaktu pelancaran drama 'Debunga Lalang' semalam, cukup menarik perhatian GUA untuk bertanyakan lebih lanjut cerita di sebalik imej baru beliau. Ezlisa yang juga adik kepada pelakon wanita yang semakin meningkat naik di Malaysia, Elfira Loy, sudi berkongsi kisah sebenar yang membawa kepada penghijrahan tersebut.

“Sebenarnya saya baru sahaja memakai tudung bermula bulan ini (Disember). Malah tak ramai kawan-kawan yang tahu sebab sekarang kan musim cuti sekolah. Tak ada sebab tertentu pun kenapa saya tampil dengan imej ini cuma hati saya tergerak untuk mengenakan hijab. Cuma ada juga peminat yang mula tanya bila giliran kakak (Elfira Loy) pula nak berhijrah,“ ujar pelajar Sekolah Menengah Kebangsaan Bandar Tun Hussein Onn 2 ini.

“Alhamdulillah. Sejak pakai tudung ini, rezeki dalam bidang lakonan pun makin murah. Saya pada awalnya tak kisah kalau tawaran berlakon tak sebanyak dulu kerana mungkin watak yang diberikan tak sesuai dengan penampilan baru saya ini. Saya bersyukur kerana keluarga dan kawan-kawan rapat menyokong penghijrahan saya.

“Lagipun, penglibatan saya dalam bidang lakonan adalah untuk kepuasan diri sendiri. Bayaran yang saya terima boleh saya gunakan untuk beli barang yang saya mahu tanpa perlu guna duit mak ayah saya. Ibu memang ajar kami adik-beradik untuk berdikari dan melalui lakonanlah saya dapat cari duit poket saya sendiri,“ tambah gadis berusia 16 tahun ini.

Menurut Ezlisa lagi, tahun 2013 merupakan tahun yang penting untuk dirinya apabila bakal menghadapi peperiksaan Sijil Pelajaran Malaysia (SPM). Bertekad untuk menyambung cita-citanya sebagai seorang chef terkenal, Ezlisa berhasrat menyambung pengajian dalam bidang seni kulinari. Minatnya terhadap bidang masakan mendorong beliau untuk terus mengejar cita-citanya ini.

Bakal muncul dalam drama 'Nana Nini Nunu' terbitan RTM, Ezlisa berkata tahun hadapan beliau akan lebih selektif memilih tawaran berlakon mengikut masa yang sesuai. Telefilem menjadi pilihan utama kerana tidak memerlukan beliau untuk mengambil cuti lama dari persekolahan.

Apa-apapun GUA doakan agar penghijrahan ini kekal dan Esliza dapat mencapai segala impian yang diidamkan.

Kredit gambar: Malaysian Digest/Faisol Mustafa

Update 02.02.2013

Siti Nurhaliza bertudung.. sungguh cantik dan ayu.. and she looked younger.. much2 younger ok.. sila jangan jeles.. =D

Azza Elit bertudung.. manis you.. =D

Update on 23.05.2013 - dah 3 minggu Lisda bertudung.. semoga beliau beristiqamah dan sama2 lah kita mendoakan yg terbaik utk beliau =)

Update 15.06.2013

Ok.. sebenarnya dah tengok gamba isteri Apek nie bertudung quite sometime dah.. tapi macam x sure lah bertudung ke idak.. then ade update on 31.05.2013.. memang sah Lieuney dah bertudung.. ok lah tu.. jom kita tengok gamba2 beliau..

Dari porter murai.com
Sebenarnya saya baru sahaja berhijab penuh sejak 2 minggu lalu dan sekarang sedang dalam proses untuk biasakan diri bertudung apabila keluar. Bukan apa, terus-terang saya sudah lama simpan niat untuk bertudung ini Cuma tunggu masa saya benar-benar bersedia untuk tampil kekal dengan berhijab. Tak mahu lah jadi bila rimas dan panas saya suka-suka bukak.

Mula-mula susah juga nak sesuaikan diri dengan bertudung setiap masa apabila di luar, yelah dengan cauca yang agak panas dan sebagainya. Lama kelamaan selepas belajar bagaimana hendak bertudung, saya pun kini sudah semakin selesa dan tenang dengan penghijarahan ini

perasan tak muka Lieuney nie ada iras2 Rosmah.. yerr Rosmah Mansur tu.. hikhikhik.. 

Dan latest gambar artis berhijrah.. jeng.. jeng .. jeng.. Fiza Elite.. wow, ini sungguh mengejutkan..
Wajah Fiza nampak berseri, lebih tenang & sangat cantik..

Memang saya terfikir untuk bertudung sejak beberapa bulan ini. Saya tak mahu terburu-buru takut nanti saya melakukannya separuh jalan sahaja. Mahu berubah ini bukan setakat bertudung sahaja, tapi memerlukan kita untuk berubah secara dalaman juga. Cukupkah amalan kita? Cukupkah sembahyang kita?… tetapi kalau suatu hari nanti, anda lihat saya bertudung… itulah dia.

Cheers to all Women over 30 !

Kali nie nak cerita tentang kahwin. Ader orang kalau bercerita bab nikah kawen nie, bukan main lagi.. happy sakan, nak2 yang lelaki.. perempuan pun ada gak, tapi takde le excited sangat macam lelaki. Bila cuti sekolah je, jemputan kawin berderet2, tak memang tangan. Hari Ahad tetiap minggu mesti dapat satu undangan. Ada sampai dua tiga majlis untuk satu hari.. haaaa mana satu nak pergi tu.. pening gak kalau memikirkannya, dah la tu jarak satu sama lain bukannya dekat..

Ada orang jodohnya cepat dan ada orang jodohnya lambat.. Tapi kalau lelaki kawen lambat takpe, pompan tak boleh, katanya ada “expiry date..” ishkkk dorang nie.. Di kalangan kenkawan, aku nie dikira yang paling lambat kawin.. umur dah 30an baru kawen.. dah jodoh lambat nak kata apa.. sebelum kawen puas le kena giat.. memacam orang kata.. anak dara tak laku la, andartu la.. memilih la.. (aiiii mesti le memilih, ingat apa.. ikan kat pasar pun kena pilih tau.. ikan mata merah kita tak amik..). Banyak lagi lah gelaran yang diberikan pada aku dulu. Tapi aku pedulik apa, pekakkan telinga lagi bagus.. asal kita tak kacau orang dah.. orang yang mengata2 orang tu, dorang happy ke :D..

This is EXCELLLENTT!!! :-))

This is for all girls 30 years and above.... and for those who are turning 30, and for those who are scared of moving into their 30's ...
AND for guys who are scared of girls over 30!!!!...This was written by
Andy Rooney from CBS 60 Minutes.

Andy Rooney says:


As I grow in age, I value women who are over 30 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:

A woman over 30 will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, "What are you thinking?" She doesn’t care what you think.

If a woman over 30 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it's usually something more interesting.

A woman over 30 knows herself well enough to be assured in who She is what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the Age of 30 give a hoot what you might think about her or what she's doing.

Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated.

A woman over 30 has the self-assurance to introduce you to her Women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn't trust the guy with other women. Women over 30 couldn't care less if you're attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won't betray her.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 30. They always know. A woman over 30 looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women.

Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 30 is far sexier than her younger counterpart. Older women are forthright and honest.

They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk if you are acting like one! You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her.

Yes, we praise women over 30 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of 30+, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year-old
waitress.

Ladies, I apologies.

For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realise it's not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage!

Kata Seorang Hikmah Kepada Anaknya

Semalam dapat call untuk pi interview.. aku punya la happy.. ada gak orang nak panggil aku untuk interview.. tapi ada sedikit masalah, pasal lokasi dia.. agak jauh dari KL.. kat area Kawasan Perindustrial Park Tuanku Jaafar kat Seremban. Hermmmm nampak gayanya kalau dapat kerja kat sini, terpaksa le aku berpindah ke Nogori nie.. Apa2 pun kita tunggu aje.. kalau apa yang dia offer tak memberangsangkan, rentikan le.. kedudukan aku kat company skang nie.. Alhamdullilah.. banyak benefit. Increment tetiap2 tahun, InsyaAllah dapat. Bonus lagi.. Alhamdulillah sesangat. Benefit dia pun boleh tahan.. abis tu kenapa aku dok carik kerja lain..

Haaaaa aku saje je nak carik kerja lain.. mana tau tempat lain lagi baik dari sekarang nie.. tak cuba kita tak taukan.. tapi yang paling penting, aku nak lari dari boss2 yang aku tak berapa berkenan sangat. Tu la, kalau tempat yang aku nak pi nie memenuhi segala syarat2 & kehendak aku.. apo nak di tunggu laie.. lompat aje le.. hehehe.. hehehe.. apa2 pun kita tunggu dan lihat ajo lah ya..


Hai anakku ! Berilah akar kepada orang yang tidak suka memberi. Akar yang akan dipakai jangan akar yang menjalar keatas kerana bisa putus, tetapi pakailah akar yang menjalar ke tanah. Dan diam adalah berfikir, pembicaraanmu hendaklah yang memberi manfaat kepada orang lain.

Kalahkanlah musuh kamu dengan perkataan lemah lembut, kerana perkataan lemah lembut adalah anak kunci hati manusia. Kemarahan dan kekasaran tidak membawa kemenangan.

Kamu tidak dapat menyenangkan orang lain dengan harta mu, tetapi senyumanmu. Menolak dengan baik, itu lebih baik daripada memberi dengan perkataan kasar.

Kalau seorang bersalah janganlah kamu pandang seperti yang diperbuatnya disengajakan, hanya pandanglah kerana kurang tahunya.

Kebanyakan manusia dipuji senang hatinya, dicela kecil hatinya, beruntung sangat gembira, rugi keluh kesah; sehendaknya ada jangan harap, kalau hilang jangan cemas, tidak harap benar kerana untung dan tidak cemas kerana rugi.

Bergaullah sesama manusia dengan satu pergaulan yang jika kamu tiada, mereka akan rindu kepada kamu dan jika kamu mati mereka akan menangisimu"

Andai hidup punca perpisahan,
biarlah mati menyambungnya semula.
Namun seandainya mati punca perpisahan,
biarlah hidup ini membawa erti yang nyata

A simple truth about life.....

Got this from a friend of mine. Something to ponder.

Don't hide your feelings if u don't want to lose someone . . .

There is a story of a man.. Who always kept his feelings towards his
friend. Until the day she got married.. He decided to tell her the truth
and.. She felt that it's a good joke for her wedding.

There is a story of a man... Who has never told his wife how much he loves
her.. Until the day she passed away. Until now, he keeps sending flowers
to her grave everyday.. With thousand kisses on the card saying "I love
you". Would she be able to know?

Yet, there is a story of a girl... Who always needed a warm hug from her
daddy. But she was too shy to ask for... Until the day he can never hug her
any more.

A lot of stories happen everyday. You could know what had happened
yesterday. How can you be sure what will happen tomorrow? Think of
Something you never say. Are you waiting until t! he day? Just say..
“I love you...”

If you like to get out from a noisy party and walk together outside only..
with that someone, you are in love.

When you are together with that someone, you pretend to ignore him/her. But
when that someone is not around you, you might look around to find him/her.
At that moment, you are in love.

Although there is someone else who always makes you laugh, your eyes and
attention.. might go only to that someone. Then, you are in love.

When you look at a group picture, you might rather look for that special
someone (to know who was next to him/her or how he/she look like in that
picture) than look for yourself. Then, you realise that you are in love.

You have to hook out your telephone line for your busy study, but you
cannot do it for one phone call from that special someone. Then, you are in
love.

If you are much more exciting for one short email from that someone than
other many long emails, you are in love.

When you get a couple of free movie tickets, You would not hesitate to
think of that special someone Then, you are in love.

You keep telling yourself, "He/She is just a friend," but you realise that
you can not help avoiding the special attraction from him/her. At that
moment, you are in love.

While you are reading this mail, if someone appear in your mind, you are
deeply in love . . .

Jealousy - Something To Ponder

No one wants a jealous mate and no one likes being jealous. Jealousy
creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate, fear. No one thinks clearly
when feeling jealous.

Having a relationship with a jealous person is tough. The jealous person
acts untrusting or unworthy. Jealousy makes the person unattractive,
even repulsive.

What causes jealousy?

"Jealousy is the largest factor in breaking up marriages. Jealousy comes
about because of the insecurity of the jealous person and the jealousy
may or may not have foundation. This person is afraid of hidden
communication lines and will do anything to try to uncover them."
When you are jealous, a line of communication appears to exist with your
spouse or lover that is hidden from you. The mystery causes the pain. If
you witnessed your spouse's communication line, so it was not hidden
from you, you would not feel jealous.

Hidden communication lines or mysteries make you think of questions.
"Will she find someone she likes better than me?" "Is he having an
affair?" "Is she going to leave me?" "Does he think I'm unattractive?"

When you are jealous, the mystery makes you assume the worst. "Maybe
he'll fall in love with his cute receptionist and leave me." "She's
going to lunch with her old boyfriend because she's still attracted to
him." "He'll come home and tell me he wants a divorce."

How to Dissolve Jealousy

"Communication is the root of marital success from which a strong union
can grow, and non-communication is the rock on which the ship will bash
out her keel*." (*Keel: The main structural part of a ship that goes
from bow to stern-front to back.)

If you are jealous, you need to communicate. You need to stop assuming
the worst and ask questions. Communicate your feelings so you can work
out solutions.

Bob says to his wife, "I don't want to feel this jealously. I want to
get rid of it by asking you a question, okay? Good. So are you attracted
to Joe?"

His wife says, "Heavens no! Joe just wanted some help with his son. I
love YOU like crazy!"

Bang! The hidden communication is revealed. The mystery is resolved. Bob
feels much better.

If Bob doesn't communicate, his wife's communication with Joe makes Bob
jealous, afraid and angry. Their marriage suffers.

If your mate is jealous, make sure you have no hidden lines of
communication. "Would you like to read this letter from Jill?" "Can you
meet with Joe to help with his son?"

Use communication to resolve the problem. For example, you notice Marcia
is acting upset and not talking. You ask yourself, "What communication
line might be hidden from Marcia?" You realize she's been acting annoyed
ever since you started working for an attractive female boss.

"Marcia, have I told you about my new boss?" Marcia jumps up and now
wants to talk. You communicate the facts and remove the mystery. Marcia
is cheerful and wants to go to a movie.

As well as using communication to resolve mysteries, communicate your
feelings for your spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend. Tell him or her how
you feel. Express your love. Show your affection.

Resolve the mysteries of the past. Discuss your feelings in the present.
Make plans for the future. Because of communication, your relationship
will be a big success..

Food For Thought..

A story/lesson to share with all of u. Interesting and how applicable it is to our lives!!!



"A group of alumni, highly established in their careers, got together to visit their old university professor. Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life. Offering his guests coffee, the professor went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups - porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal,
>some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite - telling them to help themselves to hot coffee.

When all the students had a cup of coffee in hand, the professor said:
"If you noticed, all the nice looking expensive cups were taken up, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is but normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress.

What all of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but you consciously went for the best cups and were eyeing each other's cups.

Now if life is coffee, then the jobs, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain Life, but the quality of Life doesn't change. Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee in it. "So, don't let the cups drive you... Enjoy the coffee instead."

A simple truth about life.....

Something very true and for enlightment purposes
.........................................................................................

Balance Sheet ON Life ----------------------------------

Our Birth is our Opening Balance

Our Death is our Closing Balance

Our Prejudiced Views are our Liabilities

Our Creative Ideas are our Assets

Heart is our Current Asset

Soul is our Fixed Asset

Brain is our Fixed Deposit

Thinking is our Current Account

Achievements are our Capital

Character & Morals, our Stock-in-trade

Friends are our General Reserves

Values & Behaviour are our Goodwill

Patience is our Interest Earned

Love is our Dividend

Children are our Bonus Issues

Education is Brands / Patents

Knowledge is our Investment

Experience is our Premium Account

The Aim is to Tally the Balance Sheet Accurately.

The Goal is to get the Best Presented Accounts Award.

Some very Good and Very bad things

The most destructive habit......................Worry

The greatest Joy...............................Giving

The greatest loss................Loss of self-respect

The most satisfying work...............Helping others

The ugliest personality trait.............Selfishness

The most endangered species.........Dedicated leaders

Our greatest natural resource...............Our youth

The greatest "shot in the arm"..........Encouragement

The greatest problem to overcome.................Fear

The most effective sleeping pill........Peace of mind

The most crippling failure disease............Excuses

The most powerful force in life..................Love

The most dangerous pariah..................A gossiper

The world's most incredible computer........The brain

The worst thing to be without................... Hope

The deadliest weapon.......................The tongue

The two most power filled words..............."I Can"

The greatest asset..............................Faith

The most worthless emotion..................Self-pity

The most beautiful attire......................SMILE!

The most prized possession................Integrity

The most powerful channel of communication.....Prayer

The most contagious spirit.................Enthusiasm

The most important thing in life..................Spiritual faith

Great opportunities to help others seldom come, but small ones surround us every day.

TOGETHER WE MAKE THE DIFFERENCE

Food For Thought

----- A carrot, an egg, and a cup of coffee...You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans.

She let them sit and boil; without saying a word. In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.

Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me what you see. ""Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied. Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg. Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma.

The daughter then asked, "What does it mean, mother? "Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

"Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened ands tiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.

When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

i wanna be coffee bean.. so that i can adapt myself for whatever circumstances..

Thanks Kok Wing.. copy from your blog, be no bodies.. it's inspire me

SOMETHING TO SHARE

Got this article from my friend.. just read on..

WHY WE SHOULD GO HOME ON TIME...


Mr. Narayana Murthy is undoubtedly one of the most famous persons from Karnataka. He is known not just for building the biggest IT Empire in India but also for his simplicity. Almost every important dignitary visits InfoSys campus. He delivered an interesting speech during an employee session with another IT company in India. He is incidentally, one of the top 50 influential people of Asia according to an Asiaweek publication and also the new IT Advisor to the Thailand Prime Minister.

Extract of Mr. Narayana Murthy's Speech during Mentor Session:

I know people who work 12 hours a day, six days a week, or more. Some people do so because of a work emergency where the long hours are only temporary. Other people I know have put in these hours for years. I do not know if they are working all these hours, but I do know they are in the office this long. Others put in long office hours because they are addicted to the workplace.
Whatever the reason for putting in overtime, working long hours over the long term is harmful to the person and to the organization. There are things managers can do to change this for everyone's benefit. Being in the office long hours, over long periods of time, makes way for potential errors.

My colleagues who are in the office long hours frequently make mistakes caused by fatigue. Correcting these mistakes requires their time as well as the time and energy of others. I have seen people work Tuesday through Friday to correct mistakes made after 5 PM on Monday.

Another problem is that people who are in the office long hours are not pleasant company. They often complain about other people (who are not working as hard); they are irritable, or cranky, or even angry. Other people avoid them. Such behaviour poses problems, where work goes much better when people work together instead of avoiding one another.

As Managers, there are things we can do to help people leave the office. First and foremost is to set the example and go home ourselves. I work with a manager who chides people for working long hours. His words quickly lose their meaning when he sends these chiding group e-mails with a time-stamp of 2 AM, Sunday.

Second is to encourage people to put some balance in their lives. For instance, here is a guideline I find helpful:
1) Wake up, eat a good breakfast, and go to work.
2) Work hard and smart for eight or nine hours.
3) Go home.
4) Read the books/comics, watch a funny movie, dig in the dirt, play with your kids, etc.
5) Eat well and sleep well.

This is called recreating. Doing steps 1, 3, 4, and 5 enable step 2. Working regular hours and recreating daily are simple concepts. They are hard for some of us because that requires 'personal change'. They are possible since we all have the power to choose to do them.

In considering the issue of overtime, I am reminded of my oldest son. When he was a toddler, if people were visiting the apartment, he would not fall asleep no matter how long the visit was, and no matter what time of day it was. He would fight off sleep until the visitors left. It was as if he was afraid that he would miss some thing. Once our visitors' left, he would go to sleep. By this time, however, he was over tired and would scream through half the night with nightmares. He, my wife, and I, all paid the price for his fear of missing out.

Perhaps some people put in such long hours because they do not want to miss anything when they leave the office. The trouble with this is that events ill never stop happening. That is life! Things happen 24 hours a day. Allowing for little rest is not ultimately practical. So, take a nap. Things will happen while you are asleep, but you will have the energy to catch up when you wake. Hence,

"LOVE YOUR JOB, BUT NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR COMPANY BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN THE COMPANY STOPS LOVING YOU"
- Narayana Murthy -

Far Away Terminal...

if you're frequent traveller, you'll find it quite amusing.. ermmmm..

Story of the 'far, far, away terminal'

Ten years ago in Kuala Lumpur, when you had to fly to a domestic destination, you traveled 30 minutes to Subang Airport, where you left from the 1954-style terminal where you had to go out on the tarmac in the rain and climb up a staircase to get on the plane.

Then, the government built a multi-billion ringgit global hub terminal 75 minutes away from KL with world-class everything. Then, they built a high-speed rail connection so it takes only 30 minutes to get there.

Despite this, the global hub terminal remains a deserted ghost-town with far more gate capacity than flights.

AirAsia then starts up. Everyone can fly and the global hub terminal begins to come to life. So the government decides to build AirAsia far, far away terminal at the other end of the airport, one that replicates the old 1954-style terminal. It doesn't connect to the high-speed train.

Then, almost all domestic flights are shifted over to AirAsia.

So now you have to take a 75 minute bus ride to the far, far away terminal and walk out in the rain and climb the stairs just like back in 1954, while the global hub terminal is once again deserted.

Oh, and if you need to transfer from an overseas flight to a domestic flight, you have to take a half-an-hour bus ride from the global hub terminal to the far, far away terminal.

Is this back to the future or back to the past? Or is it just 'terminal stupidity'?

How did we survive our childhood?!

Take a very short walk through our history. How did we survive our childhood? If you were a kid in the 50's, 60's, 70's or even early 80's ..how did you survive your childhood?

1.- When we were growing up we never wore seatbelts in the car, cars didn't have airbags...

2.- Riding on the back of a pick up truck was an adventure that we still remember!

3.- Our cribs were painted with bright colors (paint which was full of lead)

4.- We didn't have childproof medicine bottles, nor did our parents ever childproof our house.

5.- When we rode our bikes we never wore a helmet.

6.- We would drink water from the faucet or from a hose in the backyard (not bottled water).

7.- We didn't have cell phones , so our parents were never able to reach us (awesome) .

10.- We would get scrapes, bruises, break bones , lose teeth, but we would never sue for these accidents.

11.- We would eat cake, , bread and butter, , drink sugary drinks, and we weren't overweight because we were always outside playing.

12.- Four of us would share a drink, we would all drink from the same bottle and that wasn't gross nor would anyone get sick.

13.- We didn't have Playstations, Nintendo 64, X boxes, video games, cable TV with over 100 channels, VCR's, surround sound , cellular phones , computers , online chatrooms , instead we would have tons of FRIENDS.

16.- Some of us weren't as bright as others but when one would get left back that was no big deal. They would not get taken to a psychologist, nor did they ever suffer from dyslexia, hyperactivity, ADHD, ADD, etc, they would simply repeat the grade until they passed.

7.- We had freedom , mishaps, , successes, , responsibilities, and we would learn to deal with them. The question is...How did we survive? and above all, to become the GREAT people that we are today? . Are you from one of these generations?

If you are, then send this message to others from your same generation or to others who are younger so that they can see how we survived They will probably say that we were very boring, but I believe that we were VERY HAPPY CHILDREN...

Dedicated to all mummies

This is specially dedicated to all Mums !!


Just a Mum??

A woman named Emily renewing her driver's license at the Transport office was asked by the clerk to state her occupation. She hesitated, uncertain how to classify herself.

"What I mean is," explained the clerk, "do you have a job, or are you just a ......?
"Of course I have a job," snapped Emily. "I'm a Mum."
"We don't list 'Mum' as an occupation...... 'Housewife' covers it," said the clerk emphatically.

I forgot all about her story until one day I found myself in the same situation, this time at our local police station. The Clerk was obviously a career woman, poised, efficient, and possessed of a high sounding title like, "Official Interrogator" or "Town Registrar."

"What is your occupation?" she probed. What made me say it, I do not know... The words simply popped out. "I'm a Research Associate in the field of Child Development and Human Relations." The clerk paused, pen frozen in midair, and looked up as though she had not heard right. I repeated the title slowly, emphasizing the most significant words.

Then I stared with wonder as my pronouncement was written in bold, black ink on the official questionnaire! "Might I ask," said the clerk with new interest, "just what you do in your field?"

Coolly, without any trace of fluster in my voice, I heard myself reply, "I have a continuing programmed of research, (what mother doesn't), in the laboratory and in the field, (normally I would have said indoors and out). I'm working for my Masters, (the whole bloody family), and already have four credits, (all daughters). Of course, the job is one of the most demanding in the humanities, (any mother care to disagree.?) and I often work 14 hours a day, (24 is more like it). But the job is more challenging than most run-of-the-mill careers and the rewards are more of a satisfaction rather than just money."

There was an increasing note of respect in the girl's voice as she completed the form, stood up, and personally ushered me to the door.

When I got home, buoyed up by my glamorous new career, I was greeted by my lab assistants -- ages 10, 7, and 3. Upstairs, I could hear our new experimental model, (a 6 month old baby), in the child-development programmed, testing out a new vocal pattern. I felt I had triumphed over bureaucracy! And I had gone on the official records as someone more distinguished and indispensable to mankind than "just another Mum."

Motherhood.....What a glorious career! Especially when there's a title on the door. Does this make grandmothers "Senior Research Associates in the field of Child Development and Human Relations”, and great grandmothers "Executive Senior Research Associates"??? I think

RAHSIA DIRI ADA PADA HARI DILAHIRKAN? [sekadar pembacaan sahaja ]

1hb. Kamu seorang yang tidak tetap pendirian terutamanya dalam soal cinta. Kadangkala pilihan yang kamu buat itu bukanlah yang terbaik. Sebab itu cinta kamu mudah beralih arah bila terasa tidak wujud keserasian.

2hb. Berbeza dengan mereka yang dilahirkan pada 1hb, kamu yang dilahirkan pada tanggal 2hb cukup tegas orangnya dan keputusan kamu sukar digugat termasuklah soal cinta. Sekali kamu mengatakan tidak, tiada siapa yang mampu mengubahnya.

3hb. Kamu seorang yang cukup bersemangat dalam menjalani kehidupan. Kamu memerlukan cinta dalam hidup namun sikap kamu yang seolah tak endah dan sukar untuk meluahkan apa yang kamu rasa membuatkan kamu segan untuk didekati.

4hb. Dikatakan kamu yang dilahirkan pada 4hb ini terlalu suka mengikut perasaan dan kata hati. Sebab itulah tidak hairan bila kamu sering tersilap membuat keputusan yang kadangkala kamu sendiri kesali. Selalu saja cinta kamu hinggap pada tempat yang salah.

5hb. Awas! Kawal perasaan cemburu yang kamu miliki itu kerana ia boleh memburukkan diri kamu sendiri. Namun kebaikan kamu, bersifat pelindung kepada orang-orang yang kamu sayangi.

6hb. Kamu disukai ramai kerana personaliti kamu yang cukup menarik hati.Tidak hairanlah bila ramai yang cuba menawan hati kamu. Walau bagaimanapun, bagi kamu banyak lagi perkara penting selain cinta.

7hb. Kamu seorang yang 'happy go lucky' dan gemar berseronok. Namun sikap kamu yang agak berhati-hati dalam memilih teman membataskan pergaulan kamu. Begitu juga soal percintaan. Kamu ni pemilih sangat!

8hb. Kamu seorang yang romantis. Wah! beruntungnya siapa yang menjadi pasangan kamu nanti. Namun kamu mementingkan cinta sejati bukannya nafsu semata-mata saja!

9hb. Nampaknya kamu ni seorang yang amat menjaga personaliti dan keterampilan diri di mata orang ramai. "Maintain vouge" memanjang! Dalam soal cinta, sudah tentu kamu ingin yang 'setaraf' juga.

10hb. Kamu yang dilahirkan pada tarikh ini seorang yang sangat mementingkan keluarga daripada segala-galanya di dunia ini. Kamu gembira dalam keriuhan keluarga yang besar. Namun sikap ini kadangkala membuatkan buah hati terasa diri terpinggir!

11hb. Nampaknya kamu ni seorang yang amat berdisiplin dalam mengatur kehidupan kamu seharian. Sebab itulah kamu juga mengharap si dia juga bersikap demikian. Namun, tidakkah kamu terfikir, kadangkala hidup ini terasa boring bila terlalu mengikut peraturan??

12hb. Kamu seorang yang setia dalam perhubungan. Sekali kamu memberikan komitmen, selamanya kamu akan setia. Namun jangan tak tahu, ramai yang masih menaruh minat padamu walaupun tahu kamu sudahpun berpunya!!

13hb. Kamu seorang yang sering berfikir ke arah yang positif sahaja. Sebab itulah kamu disukai ramai. Namun dalam masa yang sama, kamu sering tunduk dan tidak tahan dengan tekanan! Dari segi hubungan cinta, kamu amat pandai menjaga perhubungan.

14hb. Hebat! Bagi kamu, karier/pelajaran adalah segalanya dalam hidup. Sebab itulah kamu tidak menerima mana-mana huluran cinta daripada sesiapa. Cinta dan perkahwinan adalah perkara terakhir dalam senarai hidup kamu!!

15hb. Kamu yang dilahirkan pada tarikh ini suka mengubah keputusan kamu secara tiba2. Namun apabila kamu membuat keputusan, kamu akan terus bertindak. Punca pergaduhan antara kamu dan si dia, sikap kamu ini yang suka membuat tindakan 'last minutes'.

16hb. Kamu ini seorang yang moody rupanya....Sekejap mood kamu okay dan sekejap pula kamu marah2. Ini membuatkan tekanan dan si dia boring dengan sikap kamu itu. Cuba kawal sikit.

17hb. Kamu lebih suka menjaga hati orang lain berbanding hati kamu sendiri. Namun sikap penting yang kamu tonjolkan membuatkan orang tidak tahu perasaan sebenar kamu.

18hb. Kamu ni sangat perahsia orangnya lebih2 lagi soal perasaan dan cinta. Kamu lebih suka memendam perasaan hingga mendatangkan tekanan pada diri kamu. Dalam perhubungan cinta, mereka sukar untuk melafazkan kata sayang.

19hb. Kamu bersikap berhati-hati dalam setiap apa yang kamu lakukan termasuklah menjalinkan perhubungan cinta. Biasanya kamu lebih suka mulakan dengan persahabatan sebelum menjadi serius.

20hb. Kamu ini terlalu banyak permintaan. Ada saja yang kamu inginkan. Sebab itulah sering timbul pergaduhan dengan si dia bila kamu asyik minta itu dan ini. Kamu sepatutnya tengok dulu kemampuan si dia!!!

21hb. Sikap kamu yang cool, tenang dan seolah tak kisah membuatkan orang lain 'ambil mudah' terhadap diri kamu. Begitu juga si dia. Lebih baik kamu berterus-terang jika ada perbuatan si dia yang kamu tidak suka sebelum terlambat.

22hb. Kamu yang lahir pada tanggal ini seorang yang amat bercita-cita tinggi dan mempunyai impian hidup sendiri. Dalam soal cinta, kamu akan memilih seseorang yang kamu akan rasa' selamat' bila berada di sampingnya.

23hb. Sikap kamu yang kelakar dan riang membuatkan orang suka mendampingi kamu. Malangnya kamu sering terasa bosan bila berada di samping teman2 dan sidia. Jangan begitu, kadangkala kita perlu serius dalam hidup.

24hb. Kamu seorang yang mementingkan diri sendiri. Dalam perhubungan cinta, kamu terlalu takut dilukai hingga membuatkan kamu bersifat menggongkong si dia.

25hb. Bila menyentuh soal cinta, kamu sukar mempercayai lelaki/perempuan yang bagi pendapat kamu ramai yang lebih suka mempermainkan kaum sejenis kamu. Kalau tak mencuba, bagaimana nak taukan??

26hb. Kamu harus ubah sikap kamu ini yang dikatakan tidak serius dalam perhubungan yang dijalinkan. Malah kamu lebih mentingkan keseronokan saja!!!!

27hb. Kamu sukar untuk menaruh kepercayaan kepada orang lain walaupun kekasih kamu sendiri. Tak baik wasangka !!!!

28hb. Kamu suka diri kamu menjadi perhatian ramai dikalangan teman2. Namun kadangkala di dalam keghairahan bila menjadi tumpuan, kamu meminggirkan sidia tanpa disedari.

29hb. Kamu tidak akan menjalinkan sebarang komitmen dengan sesiapa saja selagi kamu tidak puas hati dengan apa yang kamu miliki.

30hb. Kamu seorang yang keras kepala. Ini juga punca pergaduhan kamu dengan si dia kerana kamu sukar untuk beralah!!!!

31hb. Terlalu banyak yang kamu impikan dalam hidup.Jangan begitu, hargai apa yang kamu miliki sekarang termasuk si dia yang setia!!!!

Renungan Suami Isteri

Mungkin dah ramai yang telah membaca email ini.. tapi acik postkan juga untuk tatapan semua sebagai renungan untuk semua..

Suami saya adalah serorang jurutera, saya mencintai sifatnya yang semulajadi dan saya menyukai perasaan hangat yang muncul dihati saya ketika bersandar dibahunya. 3 tahun dalam masa perkenalan dan 2 tahun dalam masa pernikahan, saya harus akui, bahawa saya mulai merasa letih...lelah, alasan-alasan saya mencintainya dulu telah berubah menjadi sesuatu yang menjemukan.

Saya seorang wanita yang sentimental dan benar-benar sensitif serta berperasaan halus. Saya merindui saat-saat romantis seperti seorang anak kecil yang sentiasa mengharapkan belaian ayah dan ibunya. Tetapi, semua itu tidak pernah saya perolehi. Suami saya jauh berbeza dari yang saya harapkan. Rasa sensitifnya kurang. Dan ketidakmampuannya dalam menciptakan suasana yang romantis dalam perkahwinan kami telah mematahkan semua harapan saya terhadap cinta yang ideal.

Suatu hari, saya beranikan diri untuk mengatakan keputusan saya kepadanya, bahawa saya inginkan penceraian. "Mengapa?"Dia bertanya dengan nada terkejut. "Siti letih, Abang tidak pernah cuba memberikan cinta yang saya inginkan." Dia diam dan termenung sepanjang malam di depan komputernya, nampak seolah-olah sedang mengerjakan sesuatu, padahal tidak. Kekecewaan saya semakin bertambah, seorang lelaki yang tidak dapat mengekspresikan perasaannya, apalagi yang boleh saya harapkan daripadanya?

Dan akhirnya dia bertanya. "Apa yang Abang boleh lakukan untuk mengubah fikiran Siti?" Saya merenung matanya dalam-dalam dan menjawab dengan perlahan. "Siti ada 1 soalan, kalau Abang temui jawapannya didalam hati Siti, Siti akan mengubah fikiran Siti; Seandainya, Siti menyukai sekuntum bunga cantik yang ada ditebing gunung dan kita berdua tahu jika Abang memanjat gunung-gunung itu, Abang akan mati. Apakah yang Abang akan lakukan untuk Siti?"
Dia termenung dan akhirnya berkata, "Abang akan memberikan jawapannya esok." Hati saya terus gundah mendengar responnya itu.

Keesokan paginya, dia tidak ada di rumah, dan saya menenui selembar kertas dengan coretan tangannya dibawah sebiji gelas yang berisi susu hangat yang bertuliskan...
'Sayangku, Abang tidak akan mengambil bunga itu untukmu, tetapi izinkan Abang untuk menjelaskan alasannya." Kalimah pertama itu menghancurkan hati saya.

Namun, saya masih terus ingin membacanya. "Siti boleh mengetik dikomputer dan selalu mengusik program didalamnya dan akhirnya menangis di depan monitor, Abang harus memberikan jari-jari Abang supaya boleh membantu Siti untuk memperbaiki program tersebut."

"Siti selalu lupa membawa kunci rumah ketika Siti keluar, dan Abang harus memberikan kaki Abang supaya boleh menendang pintu, dan membuka pintu untuk Siti ketika pulang."
"Siti suka jalan-jalan di shopping complexs tetapi selalu tersasar dan ada ketikanya sesat di tempat-tempat baru yang Siti kunjungi, Abang harus mencari Siti dari satu lot kedai ke satu lot kedai yang lain mencarimu dan membawa Siti pulang ke rumah."

"Siti selalu sengal-sengal badan sewaktu 'teman baik' Siti datang setiap bulan, dan Abang harus memberikan tangan Abang untuk memicit dan mengurut kaki Siti yang sengal itu." "Siti lebih suka duduk di rumah, dan Abang selalu risau Siti akan menjadi 'pelik'. Dan Abang harus membelikan sesuatu yang dapat menghiburkan Siti dirumah atau meminjamkan lidah Abang untuk menceritakan hal-hal kelakar yang Abang alami."

"Siti selalu menatap komputer, membaca buku dan itu tidak baik untuk kesihatan mata Siti, Abang harus menjaga mata Abang agar ketika kita tua nanti, abang dapat menolong mengguntingkan kukumu dan memandikanmu."

"Tangan Abang akan memegang tangan Siti, membimbing menelusuri pantai, menikmati matahari pagi dan pasir yang indah. Menceritakan warna-warna bunga yang bersinar dan indah seperti cantiknya wajahmu."

"Tetapi sayangku, Abang tidak akan mengambil bunga itu untuk mati. Kerana, Abang tidak sanggup melihat airmatamu mengalir menangisi kematian Abang." "Sayangku, Abang tahu, ada ramai orang yang boleh mencintaimu lebih daripada Abang mencintai Siti." "Untuk itu sayang, jika semua yang telah diberikan oleh tangan, kaki, mata Abang tidak cukup bagi Siti. Abang tidak akan menahan diri Siti mencari tangan, kaki dan mata lain yang dapat membahagiakan Siti."

Airmata saya jatuh ke atas tulisannya dan membuatkan tintanya menjadi kabur, tetapi saya tetap berusaha untuk terus membacanya lagi.

"Dan sekarang, Siti telah selesai membaca jawapan Abang. Jika Siti puashati dengan semua jawapan ini, dan tetap inginkan Abang tinggal di rumah ini, tolong bukakan pintu rumah kita, Abang sekarang sedang berdiri di luar sana menunggu jawapan Siti." "Tetapi, jika Siti tidak puas hati, sayangku...biarkan Abang masuk untuk mengemaskan barang-barang Abang, dan Abang tidak akan menyulitkan hidupmu. Percayalah, bahagia Abang bila Siti bahagia."

Saya terpegun. Segera mata memandang pintu yang terkatup rapat. Lalu saya segera berlari membukakan pintu dan melihatnya berdiri di depan pintu dengan wajah gusar sambil tangannya memegang susu dan roti kesukaan saya. Oh! Kini saya tahu, tidak ada orang yang pernah mencintai saya lebih dari dia mencintai saya.

Itulah cinta, di saat kita merasa cinta itu telah beransur-ansur hilang dari hati kita kerana kita merasa dia tidak dapat memberikan cinta dalam 'kewujudan' yang kita inginkan, maka cinta itu telah hadir dalam 'kewujudan' yang tidak pernah kita bayangkan sebelum ini. cuba kita ambil ikhtibar dari cerita ini..:)

so cute.. have u ever notice..

What Is A True Friend

What is a True Friend?
A true friend is someone special
Not many people possess
A true friend is warm and tender
And comforting in their caress.

A true friend is always by your side
If only in your thoughts
A true friend is there for you willingly
And come free, they're never bought.

A true friend is someone who listens
And hears what you have to say
A true friend is never judgemental
And stays with you come what may.

A true friend will love you always
In them you can confide
A true friend will greet you lovingly
With opens arms so wide.

A true friend your cherish dearly
Feeling grateful for their love
A true friend is very special
A blessing from above.

A true friend will feel your presence
Whether near or far
A true friend I hear you question
Who is my freind?
You are!

8 Petanda

Penawar ada pelbagai penawar, penawarku untuk semua..........kongsikan bersama
8 Petanda Dia Adalah Soulmate (Jodoh) Kamu...

Dua manusia yang merasa saling berjodoh pasti memiliki ikatan emosional, spiritual dan fizikal antara keduanya. Hanya dengan menatap mata atau mendengar suaranya, kita akan merasakan getaran dan seolah ingin terus bersamanya. Benarkah seperti itu? Lalu, apakah ada petanda lainnya agar seseorang dapat merasakan bahawa si dia jodoh (soulmate) kita atau bukan?


Petanda 1
Rahsia sepasang kekasih agar dapat memiliki usia hubungan yang panjang adalah dengan adanya saling kerjasama. Kamu dan dia selalu dapat saling membantu, dalam urusan remeh atau besar. Paling penting adalah kamu berdua selalu dapat melalui segala aspek kehidupan secara bersama-sama. Dan semuanya terasa amat menyenangkan meskipun tanpa harus melibatkan orang lain. Apakah kamu sudah merasakan perkara tersebut? Jika ya, selamat... kerana ada harapan bahawa dia adalah calon pendamping hidup kamu!

Petanda 2
Salah satu kriteria yang menentukan sesuai atau tidaknya dia sebagai jodoh kamu atau bukan adalah kemampuannya bersikap bersahaja di depan kamu. Cuba sekarang perhatikan, apakah gerak-gerinya, caranya berpakaian, gaya rambutnya, caranya berbicara serta tertawanya mengesankan apa adanya? Apakah setiap ucapannya selalu tampak spontan dan tidak dibuat-buat? Jika tidak, (maaf) kemungkinan besar dia bukan jodoh kamu!

Petanda 3
Adanya deria batiniah membuat hati kamu berdua dapat selalu saling tahu. Dan bila kamu atau si dia dapat saling membaca fikiran dan menduga reaksi serta perasaannya satu sama lainnya pada situasi tertentu. Selamat! Sebenarnya dialah destini kebahagian kamu...

Petanda 4
Bersamanya dapat membuat perasaan kamu menjadi tenang, selesa dan tanpa perasaan tertekan. Berjam-jam bersamanya, setiap waktu dan setiap hari tanpa membuat kamu merasa bosan... Inilah petanda bahawa kamu berdua kelak akan saling terikat.

Petanda 5
Dia selalu ada untuk kamu dalam situasi apapun. Dan dia selalu dapat memahami situasi dalam hati kamu baik dalam suka dan duka. Percayalah pasangan yang berjodoh pasti tak takut mengalami pasang-surut, suka-duka saat bersama. Sekarang, ingat-ingat kembali. Apakah dia orang pertama yang datang memberi bantuan tatkala kamu dirundung musibah? Dia selalu faham saat emosi kamu terganggu? Dia tahu keadaan waktu anda sakit? Jika ya, tak salah lagi. Dialah orangnya...

Petanda 6
Dia tak terlalu peduli dengan masa lalu keluarga kamu, dia tak peduli dengan masa lalu kamu saat bersama kekasih terdahulu. Dia juga tak malu-malu menceritakan masa lalunya... Nah, kalau begitu ini bisa berarti dia sudah siap menerima kamu apa adanya..

Petanda 7
Setiap orang pasti memiliki kekurangan, dan kamu tak malu-malu memperlihatkannya pada si dia. Bahkan pada saat kamu tampil 'buruk' di depannya sekalipun, misalnya saat kamu bangun tidur atau saat kamu sakit dan tak mandi selama dua hari. Ataupun menceritakan sejujurnya kepada kamu tentang kelemahan dan kekurangannya... Nah! Kamu dan dia memangnya disuratkan untuk bersama!

Petanda 8
Bila merasa rahsia kamu bisa lebih selamat di tangannya daripada di tangan sahabat-sahabat kamu yang lain. Atau kamu merasa sudah tak dapat lagi menyimpan rahsia apapun darinya, maka berbahagialah! Kerana ini bererti pasangan sejati telah kamu temukan!

Apakah kelapan petanda di atas telah kamu temukan padanya?

A to Z of Life Explained

A to Z of Life Explained!

Life is an ADVENTURE, Dare it.

Life is a BEAUTY, Worship it.

Life is a CHALLENGE, Meet it.

Life is a DREAM, Realize it.

Life is ENDURANCE, Cope with it.

Life is FRAGRANCE, Smell it.

Life is a GAME, Play it.

Life is HEAVEN, Make it.

Life is an INITIATIVE, Take it.

Life is a JOURNEY, Complete it.

Life is KEROSINE, Burn it.

Life is LOVE, Enjoy it.

Life is a MYSTERY, Unfold it.

Life is a NAME, Find it.

Life is an OPPORTUNITY, Catch it.

Life is a PROMISE, Fulfil it.

Life is a QUESTION, Answer it.

Life is a REALITY, Face it.

Life is a SONG, Sing it.

Life is TIME, Utilize it.

Life is an URGE, Satisfy it.

Life is a VOICE, Listen to it.

Life is WEALTH, Acquire it.

Life is X ? Solve it.

Life is a YEARNING, Go after it.

Life is ZENITH, Attain it.

Touching Story

I walked into the grocery store not particularly interested in buying
groceries. I wasn't hungry. The pain of losing my husband of 57 years
was still too raw. And this grocery store held so many sweet memories.

He often came with me and almost every time he'd pretend to go off and
look for something special. I knew what he was up to. I'd always spot
him walking down the aisle with the three yellow roses in his hands.

He knew I loved yellow roses. With a heart filled with grief, I only
wanted to buy my few items and leave, but even grocery shopping was
different since he had passed on.

Shopping for one took time, a little more thought than it had for two.

Standing by the meat, I searched for the perfect small steak and
remembered how he had loved his steak.

Suddenly a woman came beside me. She was blonde, slim and lovely in a so
ft green pantsuit. I watched as she picked up a large package of
T-bones, dropped them in her basket.. hesitated, and then put them back.
She turned to go and once again reached for the pack of steaks.

She saw me watching her and she smiled. "My husband loves T-bones, but
honestly, at these prices, I don't know."

I swallowed the emotion down my throat and met her pale blue eyes.

"My husband passed away eight days ago," I told her. Glancing at the
package in her hands, I fought to control the tremble in my voice. "Buy
him the steaks. And cherish every moment you have together."

She shook her head and I saw the emotion in her eyes as she placed the
package in her basket a nd wheeled away.

I turned and pushed my cart across the length of the store to the dairy
products. There I stood, trying to decide which size milk I should buy.
A Quart, I finally decided and moved on to the ice cream. If nothing
else, I could always fix myself an ice cream cone.

I placed the ice cream in my cart and looked down the aisl e toward the
front. I saw first the green suit, then recognized the pretty lady
coming towards me. In her arms she carried a package. On her face was
the brightest smile I had ever seen. I would swear a soft halo encircled
her blonde hair as she kept walking toward me, her eyes holding mine.

As she came closer, I saw what she held and tears began misting in my
eyes. "These are for you," she said and placed three beautiful long
stemmed yellow roses in my arms. "When you go through the line, they
will know these are paid for." She leaned over and placed a gentle kiss
on my cheek, then smiled again. I wanted to tell her what she'd done,
what the roses meant, but still unable to speak, I watched as she walked

away as tears clouded my vision.

I looked down at the beautiful roses nestled in the green tissue
wrapping and found it almost unreal. How did she know? Suddenly the
answer seemed so clear. I wasn't alone.

Oh, you haven't forgotten me, have you? I whispered, with tears in my
eyes. He was still with me, and she was his angel.

Every day be thankful for what you have and who you are.
(Please read all of this, it is really nice)

This is a simple request. If you appreciate life, send this to your
friends, including the person that sent it to you.

Even though I clutch my blanket and growl when the alarm rings. Thank
you, Lord, that I can hear. There are many who are deaf.

Even though I keep my eyes closed against the morning light as long as
possible. Thank you, Lord , that I can see. Many are blind.

Even though I huddle in my bed and put off rising. Thank you, Lord, that
I have the strength to rise. There are many who are bedridden.

Even though the first hour of my day is he ctic, when socks are lost,
toast is burned, tempers are short, and my children are so loud.

Thank you, Lord, for my family. There are many who are lonely.

Even though our breakfast table never looks like the picture in
magazines and the menu is at times unbalanced.

Thank you, Lord, for the food we have. There are many who are hungry.

Even though the routine of my job often is monotonous. Thank you, Lord,
for the opportunity to work. There are many who have no job.

Even though I grumble and bemoan my fate from day to day and wish my
circumstances were not so modest.

Thank you, Lord, for life.

Pass this on to the friends you know. It might help a bit to make this
world a better place t o live, right? A friend is someone we turn to
when our spirits need a lift. A friend is someone to treasure.

For friendship is a gift. A friend is someone who fills our lives with
Beauty, Joy and Grace and makes the world we live in a better and
happier place.

YOU ARE MY FRIEND!

God bless you and yours.