Friday, November 25, 2005

Cinta & Perkahwinan

Setelah lama menyepikan diri.. aku rasa nak postkan sesket pasal cerita kehidupan aku lah.. nie asek2, postkan forward email.. sebab haaa.. ada sebab dia tau napa aku buat macam tu.. actually the forward email yang dipostkan kat sini tu for my own reading.. tak sempat nak baca, so aku post dulu kat blog and next time bila open the blog aku boleh baca.. ada kaa orang buat macam tuuuhhh??? adaaaa.. aku la tu.. orang lain create blog takde le buat memende macam tu.. tapi kalu aku le, memacam ada.. orang pun kalau tersinggah boleh naik biol nak baca.. hehehe.. hehehe

Kali nie aku tukar lagi blog template nie.. almaklum le ntah apa yang digodek, itu tak keluar, ini tak keluar.. last2 tukar le template senang sket ati nie.. :).. selain dari tukar template, nama pun tukar jugakk.. ini bersesuaian le ngan tuan dia.. nie kenkununnya nama de laila.. orang dengar macam anggun, ayu jelita gitu.. hahaha.. hahaha, sebelum aper2 baik aku tukor jadik acik ila.. aku pun skang nie dah ramai anak buah.. elok le dah jadik acik ila.. tapi untuk pengetahuan semua.. anak2 sedara aku yang lima orang tu.. panggil aku aunty.. kelazzz gitu akak nie..

ehh macam tak kena pulak tajuk ngan cerita aku nih.. bukan aper.. tajuk tu sebab tadi pagi dapat email dari kawan.. it's quite interesting.. so, aku nak share le ngan sesaper yang tersinggah kat blog nie.. tapi nie aku dah baca.. saje je nak tempek kat sini so, next time aku boleh baca lagi dan lagi.. dan lagi.. berapa banyak lagi daaa...

Love & Marriage

A student ask a teacher, "what is love ?" The teacher said, "in order
to answer your question,
go to the padi field and choose the biggest padi and come back.
But the rule is: you can go throught them only once and cannot turn
back to pick."


The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big
padi, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later. Then he saw
another bigger one... but may be there is a even bigger one waiting for
him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the padi field, he start to
realise that the padi is not as big as the previous one he saw, heknow
he has missed the biggest one,
and he regretted !!!! So, he ended up went back to the teacher with
empty hand.

The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better
one, but when later you realise, you
have already miss the person...."
" What is marriage then ?" the student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn
field and choose the biggest corn and come back.
But the rule is: you can go throught them only once and cannot turn
back to pick.
" The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to
repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he
has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the
teacher.
The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn....
you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this
is the best one you get.... this is marriage ."


haa tu dia.. cikgu tu dah terangkan apa makna cinta dan apa makna perkahwinan.. make sense gak le aper cikgu tu kata kat anak murid dia tu.. kengkadang masa blom kawin.. ada orang punye le memilih.. letak kriteria yang bukan2.. tapi last2 yang dia dapat langsung takde dalam kriteria yang telah ditetapkan.. hermmmmm aku pun macam tu gak.. tetapkan kriteria, macam bagus je.. but think about it.. kalau kita boleh letak kriteria (or requirement lah) orang lain pun sama lah jugak.. dorang pon ada kriteria gak nak carik calon .. so, agak2 je le nak letakkan kriteria tu, bukan tak boleh.. tapi zaman sekarang nie susah nak cari as what we expected..

just think about it..


3 comments:

born2Bda'ie said...

got from www.alfaiqah.blogspot.com

searching for the true love...
assalamualaikum wbt..

i found this article in friendster' bulletin posted by timmec, then reposted by huda n mun.so i thought this must be a good one. as i read line by line..i found this article is more than worth reading.so aku post la kat sini utk bacaan kite sume.. (^_^)//


Are you in love?

" Who is to be found by woman when a man has
not yet found himself? Who is to be found by a
man when a woman has not yet found herself?
Explore and discover that which is within. When
we find ourselves, we are more easily found by
others."
(Quoted from the book, "The Tao of Relationships"
by Ray Griggs)

The meaning of the verse can be interpreted in hundreds different ways. I personally suggest anyone in a search of love, would consider to read and understand this verse first before anything else. It is a good start for us to reconsider how do we perceive love between two opposite creatures that is man and woman.

"Who is to be found when a man has not yet found himself?" How can one be expecting one's love to find him if he himself do not even know who's the person been living inside him. Know yourself first. Realise what do you want in this life. Realise what do you really are. A great man? Or just a tiny humble creature of Allah The Almighty? Once you are in the right path in seeking the answers, you
will realise how trivial a love for the opposite sex really are. You will realise that there are just so many things for you to do in life - to gain the Eternal Love of Allah.

One would say, "It is easy for you to write such things as love. Real life would be different. Experience it and you know." Yes, I cannot agree more than that. To meet people and fall in love would be one of the life's most vicious cycle. To meet and separate. To gain and lose.

I was inspired to write this article knowing the harsh truth of the chronic and acute 'diseases' that had been infecting the Muslims youngster ages ago as far
as I can recalled. I cannot really name the disease but I can list out some of the obvious sign and symptom of the 'disease' - when people start throwing the true teaching in Islam, start to bury their remembrance to Allah and replace it with their undying love to their partner - to make it worse - their unmarried partner. Enemies of Islam have done an excellent job indeed. These young muslims are already dwelling in the sick world of their so-called love. Movies and songs successfully promoted how essential it is to devote ourselves to love. How sacred the love is until one can sacrifice everything in the name of love.

"Satan makes them promises and creates in them false hopes, but Satan's promises are nothing but deception."
(Surah An-Nisa': 120)

It is very sickening. It is a common view to see Muslims couple holding hands, hugging - most of the girls are wearing hijab. These people do pray five times a day sometimes. But how can their solat fail to deter them from doing mungkar? This is something for us to ponder. Again I repeat, this is very sickening. In Malaysia, most of us are born with Islam. We are being honored to be born as
Muslims but how do we uphold the 'gift' that Allah has honored us with?

Yes. A man is incomplete without a woman. A woman is incomplete without a man. Even Prophet Adam was destined to be with Hawa. Even our beloved Prophet's life was completed by the love of Siti Khadijah. How can one decide to be against a nature that had been ruling the world since the first existence of human being on earth? Then again, let us go back to real purpose of our existence. If one claims a Muslim, did one realise that one had been created just to bow and prostrate to Allah The Most Gracious, The Most Merciful?

Dear all,have not we forgotten that there are two things in this life that have been decided long before we are even being born in this world - which are our 'jodoh
pertemuan' and our own death?

We, Muslims, proudly claim that Allah is our God and Muhammad is His Messenger. We believe in Allah, we said. We believe in the teaching of Muhammad SAW. If so, then why do people still neglecting the Power of Allah, why do we still
forget that there is One Power that is ruling the world that we are living now? The One that decide everything that happened all around us. Our lifes and death. Victory and loss.

" That Allah might accomplish. A matter already decided and unto Allah, are all matters returned."
(Surah Al-Anfal:44)

Therefore, do you find any need for you to struggle for the momentary love? Is it much worth it for you to fight for your 'love', to sacrifice everything to make sure that your relationship ends with marriage while you know that Allah have prepared everything for you long ago. Do you not believe in Him? Whoever you are, wherever you are, whatever situation you had dwell in, it is never too late to
return to His path. Never stop praying.

Allahumma anta rabbi
la ila ha illa ant
khalaqtani wa ana 'abduk
wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa wa'dika ma-stata't
a'uthu bika min shari ma sara't
abu'ulaka bin 'matika 'alaya
wa abu'u bi-thambi faighfirli
fa-inahu la yaghfiru - thunuba ila ant

O Allah! You are my Lord, there is no God but you
You created me and I am your slave
I uphold your pledge and evil that I have committed
I acknowledge your blessing upon me
and I acknowledge my sin
So forgive me, for none can forgive sins except
You.

Remember our purpose of existence in this world. Remember that there is One greater Power ruling and watching over us. Even when we had such a wonderful couple, a great love story, but if Allah have decided that he or she is not the one for you, there is nothing you can do to change His qadr.

Do not worry too much on ending up alone when you are old because all in all nobody will be with us in our grave when Mungkar and Nangkir question us. We will end up alone at last. It is our amal in our life that will determine where we will be in the life after. Death is actually just a second away from each and everyone of us.

Life is so short for us to discover His Love. Why waste your time for any other love than His? If you remember Him, He remember you more than you would imagine.

" But those who believe and do deeds of righteousness, We shall soon admit them to Gardens, with rivers flowing beneath - to dwell therein forever. Allah's promise is the truth and who word can be Truer than Allah's? "
(Surah An-Nisa:122)

Wallahualam

acik ila said...

nice one.. thanks daie

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